S1. C07. Empowering Parents to Confidently Guide Their Child’s Learning Journey
Series 1: Mindset First - Redefining Education to Empower the Next Generation
As explored in previous chapters, building a resilient, growth-oriented mindset in students doesn’t start and stop at school; it extends to the home, where parents play a fundamental role in shaping how children approach learning and adapt to challenges. If education is to truly empower students for the future, schools must also empower parents to be active, confident guides in this process.
This chapter shifts focus to parents, offering insights and practical advice on how they can support their children’s learning journey. In a constantly evolving world, where adaptability, resilience, and a growth mindset are essential, parents, too, must evolve. This chapter is designed to give parents the tools and confidence to nurture these traits in their children and to join them in learning and growing together
Practical Strategies for Supporting Mindset-Driven Growth
Building a growth mindset at home doesn’t require formal training or expertise. Small, intentional steps can have a big impact on how children view learning, setbacks, and success. Here are some practical strategies to help parents create a growth-oriented environment:
Ask the Right Questions: Instead of focusing on results, parents can support growth by asking questions that encourage articulation and build resilience. For example:
• Instead of “How can I motivate my child?” try asking, “How can I guide my child to take action independently and build self-discipline?”
• Instead of “How can I protect my child from failure?” consider, “How can I help my child learn from setbacks and grow stronger?”
By reframing questions, parents can make the journey of discovery and lifelong learning with their children more encouraging and fulfilling. This approach eases pressure by sharing responsibility, creating a space where children feel trusted to take initiative, and helping them understand that it’s okay to try, stumble, and grow. This supportive environment empowers children to embrace challenges with confidence, knowing that learning is a shared adventure
Wanna give it a try? Let's take a look at some common questions by parents and rephrase them as a practice. Let us know your rephrase version in the Comment box:
1. “How can I make sure my child succeeds?”
2. “Why isn’t my child achieving high grades?”
3. “How can I motivate my child to study?”
4. “How can I keep my child from making more mistakes?”
5. “Why doesn’t my child listen to me?”
6. “What can I do to make my child more disciplined?”
7. “How can I help my child choose the right career?”
8.“Why doesn’t my child have any interests?”
9. “How can I know what my child is really good at?”
10. “How can I know what is my child’s passion ?”
11. “Why does my child lack confidence?”
12. “How can I make my child more competitive?”
13. “How can I get my child to focus better?”
14. “Why doesn’t my child have any interests?”
Encourage Curiosity and Self-Motivation: Curiosity is a key driver of lifelong learning. Parents can foster this by encouraging their children to explore new ideas, ask questions, and think critically. Modeling curiosity—such as showing enthusiasm for learning or discussing a new topic—demonstrates to children that learning is a continuous, exciting journey rather than an obligation.
Build Resilience Together: Teaching children that setbacks are a natural part of growth builds resilience. Parents can create an environment where mistakes are seen as learning opportunities by sharing examples of their own challenges and how they worked through them. Celebrating effort and persistence over perfect results teaches children that success often comes through perseverance.
Opening a New “Face” of the Rubik’s Cube – The Parent’s Wishlist
As part of our 360° evaluation model, we encourage parents to think about the unique qualities and skills they wish to nurture in their children. Just as each face of a Rubik’s Cube reveals a different aspect of a student’s development, parents add their own perspective—a “wishlist” of traits they value and want to see grow in their child.
This “parent’s wishlist” might include qualities such as resilience, empathy, independence, or critical thinking. It’s a tool for parents to reflect on their aspirations for their child’s character, mindset, and future capabilities. By identifying these qualities, parents can take an active role in reinforcing them at home, aligning with the school’s mindset-driven approach.
I want my children to be more confident!!!
It's a sharing by a mother in a recent talk with parents. We discussed how to empower them as guides, even if they feel they have limited knowledge of specific subjects. By focusing on mindset-driven principles—such as resilience, curiosity, and self-discipline—parents can become effective mentors. A child’s confidence, after all, often reflects the confidence they feel from their parents. By modeling a growth mindset themselves, parents inspire their children to embrace challenges with courage
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Engaging Parents Through Continuous Insights – Monthly Newsletters
To further involve parents in their child’s growth journey, we’ve introduced a mindset-focused newsletter designed to give parents a well-rounded view of their child’s progress. Traditional updates often focus on academic results, which highlight only the end outcome. But our newsletters aim to keep parents informed about the full journey—the smaller steps of progress that build a child’s mindset, resilience, and cognitive skills.
1. Updating Parents on the Full Journey, Not Just the End Result: Our newsletters go beyond final grades, offering parents insights into their child’s incremental growth. They capture the minor yet crucial progress markers—like a newfound interest in a challenging subject or perseverance in a complex project—that contribute to the development of a resilient and curious mindset. This gives parents a fuller understanding of their child’s achievements and areas for growth.
2. Identifying Critical Cognitive Skills and thinking process: Based on our research, we share insights into areas of cognitive development that are essential but often overlooked. For example, we may discuss the importance of self-regulation, adaptability, and intrinsic motivation, along with practical suggestions on how parents can support these traits at home. This information helps parents to focus on supporting not only academic success but also mindset growth.
3. Involving Parents in the Learning Journey: These newsletters encourage parents to engage actively in their child’s learning journey, evolving alongside their children. By providing specific strategies and sharing the small, progressive steps in a child’s development, we help parents understand their critical role in reinforcing these skills. In doing so, parents are not only more informed but also more empowered to contribute meaningfully to their child’s growth.
Chair of the Customer – Integrating Parent Perspectives into the Educational Ecosystem
For schools and educational institutes, to illustrate the importance of including parents’ voices, in our train-the-trainers series, we introduced the concept of a “Chair of the customer” —a symbolic seat representing the parent’s voice ans wishlist. This chair serves as a reminder that education is not just about delivering knowledge but about understanding and addressing the full spectrum of needs that students and their families bring to the table.
Usually, actively involving parents in the educational journey is a powerful, transformative step that requires both courage and operational excellence. Engaging parents as partners can be challenging initially, as it requires schools to go beyond traditional academic metrics and embrace a mindset-driven, collaborative approach. Schools must adapt their operations to communicate consistently, listen attentively, and provide meaningful insights that parents can use to support their child’s growth at home. This shift demands careful planning, clear communication, and a commitment to transparency—foundations of operational excellence that ultimately strengthen the entire school community.
Yet, this journey makes schools more resilient and dynamic. By listening to and learning from parents, schools gain valuable customer insights that enable them to better understand the needs, aspirations, and concerns of families. This feedback loop fosters innovation, deepens relationships, and allows schools to tailor their educational offerings to create a truly supportive learning ecosystem.
Ultimately, the “Chair of the Customer” concept elevates schools from mere service providers to trusted partners in mindset-driven education. Schools that embrace this approach don’t just meet the immediate needs of families; they build a foundation of trust, adaptability, and excellence that drives the entire school team forward, positioning them as leaders in education and setting a new standard for holistic, family-centered learning.
Why It Matters – Empowering Parents as Partners in Education
Empowering parents as active participants in their child’s learning journey isn’t just beneficial—it’s a transformative move that positions schools as leaders in the educational field. Here’s why it matters:
• Differentiated Educational Offering: Schools that involve parents in mindset-driven growth create a unique, forward-thinking learning environment. By emphasizing character development and resilience alongside academics, they offer an educational experience that stands out, attracting families who value a holistic approach to their child’s development.
• Elevating the School’s role as a Community Leader: When schools equip parents with tools and insights, they build trust and foster a collaborative community. Parents who feel informed and valued are more engaged. This approach positions the school as a progressive institution that understands the importance of a strong community and values the family’s role in education. By providing resources, newsletters, and guidance, schools empower parents to make meaningful contributions to their child’s growth, reinforcing the school’s role as a leader and a trusted partner in education
• Staying Ahead in the Educational Industry: Schools that empower parents demonstrate thought leadership, preparing students who are adaptable and future-ready. This proactive approach ensures the school stays at the forefront of educational trends, developing graduates who can thrive in a rapidly changing world and establishing the school as an industry innovator.
By embracing parents as partners, schools elevate their role from educators to community leaders, creating a learning environment that drives student success and positions the school as a visionary leader.
By completing this Chapter, you earn these Power Cards:
By actively incorporating parents’ insights into the learning journey, schools and Educators gain powerful tools that enhance the educational experience for both students and the entire school community. Here are the “Power Cards” schools unlock when they embrace parents as partners
1. Courage: Engaging parents as partners requires courage, as it challenges schools to step beyond traditional boundaries and invite feedback. This openness encourages continuous improvement and shows the school’s commitment to evolving and adapting to better serve families and students.
2.Operational Excellence: Actively involving parents requires clear communication, consistent updates, and seamless integration of feedback into school programs. This effort elevates the school’s operational practices, setting a high standard of efficiency and responsiveness that benefits the entire community.
3. Integrity: Embracing parents as valued partners demonstrates the school’s commitment to honesty and transparency. This trust-building approach strengthens the school’s relationship with families, creating a foundation of integrity that reassures parents and reinforces the school’s credibility.
By integrating parents into the learning journey, schools not only enhance student outcomes but also develop a resilient, values-driven environment that elevates their role from educators to true community leaders. These “Power Cards” represent a lasting investment in the school’s success and its ability to empower students, families, and the school team to thrive.
Conclusion – The Parent’s Compass: A New Way to Guide Learning
In this new chapter of mindset-driven education, parents play an irreplaceable role as guides and mentors. By embracing the tools, insights, and approaches offered here, parents are not just supporting their child’s education but actively shaping it. They are building a compass that will guide their child’s journey, helping them navigate challenges with confidence and resilience.
Just as students are learning to navigate an uncertain future, parents are on a journey of their own—one where they have the power to guide, inspire, and grow alongside their children. Are you ready to embrace this role as your child’s compass in a changing world?
As we move forward, let’s celebrate the invaluable role of parents in this journey and empower them to be the compass that leads their children confidently into the future
Intentionally or unintentionally there are activities relevant to parents. It's crucial for students to gain support from parents in order to eradicate what happened in the past and to be ready for the future